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Kayotic Konfessions

Itz so much easier to be a Mess…

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October 2011

Forget the Date…

“Excuse me while I forget the date….

Act just like you,

forget that it symbolizes what we’ve been through

that it marks we’ve survived,

that were suppose to keep going,

your forgot, now so shall I

Lets continue not knowing!!!!”

Yes, I am a little salty at the moment (if you haven’t figured it out my anniversary is this week, but it has turned out to be unimportant). It seems like things within a relationship just are not important to the fellas of this generation anymore. Time comes with the territory of being in relationship and I think guys tend to forget that. Also, included is the significance of growing and creating memories. It seems to not be a big deal to most fellas but “HEADS UP GUYS“…. it is important to us ladies! It aint even about the damn gift, JUST REMEMBER THE DATE!!! Show you care just as much about the relationship, the person you chose to be with, and the time that is being spent! No one like to reach a year or more and feel like it has been a waste because they are in it alone! Give small gestures of love, passion and appreciation. Where has the romance gone? Being in a relationship physically is NOT enough to keep it alive or enough for us to turn the other cheek when you are slacking!

~Remember how you got her, and that is how you will keep her…. & lets not forget the dates! Or she will fill that empty space, erase all the dates and forget your FACE, I swear she will! (I’m just saying, no Pun Intended)

-Kayotic Konfession

 

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Damn if you do, Damn if you dont…

I am not fully comprehending how this works and its becoming a bit frustrating. When you are in a relationship, is it not suppose to be about the good of both parties opposed to self? When you are in a relationship, where exactly do you draw the line between pride, acceptance and/or compromise?

Being in a relationship and wanting to do for your significant other or help them out at times when you are unable is bad enough. For that is like torture to yearn to do something for the one you love but you can’t. However, nothing holds a candle stick to those moments except those few times when you can actually be of some assistance. When you have a little extra or you are able to help during a bad situation and your significant other refuses your gestures. Your badgered with, it’s not right, they will be okay, and they just turn down your gesture by turning the other cheek. It’s almost like a smack in the face. How do you expect to grow and maintain in the future, when bigger things present their self and you don’t or won’t allow that person to help? How are you gonna feel when that time comes and you need that person’s help but you have refused it so much that at that moment of need, they never even offer? Never even think twice about you needing assistance because as you claimed numerous times before “you will be fine.”

If you are in a relationship that doesn’t seem to be balanced and consisting of a bond of not one but two, what do you do?

“Constant ignored gestures or offers from the heart, eventually fade and become non-existent every time they are presumed to not be needed.” – Kayotic Konfessions

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