Communication is everything, without it… we will go nowhere!!!
“There are always two parts to a story”….
Why do I have to suffer for her past decisions; bad ones I might add! They weren’t mines, they were hers. You always hear women fucking complaining about all they have to go through to make a man relate, feel or express their emotions. Do women every stop to think about all the shit men have to go through to survive their emotions. To overcome all the barriers they come with. They got more baggage then the Ronald Reagan National Airport got room for. It’s a lot to handle at times, man too damn much. Sometimes I’m not even sure if there would even be enough room for men emotions in a relationship. They’d have to compete with women bi-polar ass mood swings. Shoot, we didn’t hurt you, not yet anyway and half the time were not even sure how to avoid it because women are so fucked up from their past, that we unknowingly trigger their old emotions. It isn’t like we meant to do it. Getting them to talk about it, to avoid future problems is worst then the odds that the bears will win the Superbowl; UNHEARD OF!!! They can talk about everything else but what the hell is bothering them. Yet, you want our emotions to show,… how bout women let theirs go first. Stop punishing us for the things their ex’s did… We are not them.
Whats wrong with women being emotional, at least were not emotionally withdrawn. Even with all the bullshit women endure from MEN were still willing to care or try, opposed to men being so damn detached, to the point we have to imagine that you all are capable of even caring. Your like stone, nothing shows so how can we tell “its real”. Women have barriers while men have grand canyons and no heart at all. Yes, women are cautious of newcomers and a bit comparative but men, when they are hurt or done wrong, it is difficult for ANYONE to get close to them. Almost like were your EX, were to blame for what she did. Women don’t blame men for our past, we just know what we’ve been thru and what were not willing to go through again. So if you’re not gonna put your all in to it, then you’re a wasting both of time. Why should women show all of us, if men are gonna hide parts of them. Men tend to avoid many things so that they don’t have to feel. Constantly dissociating theirs selves from women, showing us your just like every one else.. YOU DONT CARE!!
— This is how most conversations/opinions of both genders go, as you can see… neither party has actually acknowledged what the other said. Neither party has offered a solutions towards how the other feels. In relationships nowadays there is always room for “I”… how I feel, what I expect, and what I think…. If you are still stuck in the “I” phase… then you need to be alone, for there is no “I”… in the word US!! Just food for thought!